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					  <title><![CDATA[What Is Love?]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[What is Love God's way?<br/><div style="text-align: justify;"> </div>]]></description>
					  <author>no@spam.com (Najma Zaman)</author>
					  <pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 18:30:59 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Shooting tips]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[Basic shooting tips:<br/>Get comfortable&nbsp;don't rush the shot!<br/><br/>Slow your breathing fire at either the end of you exhale or at the end of your&nbsp;inhale there is a&nbsp;natural pause how ever&nbsp;brief its there, just slow your breathing and hold it&nbsp; for no more then 5 seconds then take your shot.&nbsp;If you hold it past 5 seconds resume breathing and pause again and take the shot.<br/><br/>Don't try and hold your aim dead center on your target let it just sort of float in very small circles on the center of your target trying to hold it dead center can cause your muscles to shake and throw you off target. You will find the right amount of&nbsp;give as you practice.<br/><br/>Gently squeeze the trigger&nbsp;don't jerk it back. One slow smooth motion on the trigger when you are ready to fire. You can take a little bit of slack off the trigger before you fire but be warned if you get excited and take to much you will fire early and this could cause you to miss entirely. <br/><br/>Stay calm and focused.<br/><br/>HAVE FUN!! Unless you are in a war zone its not the end of the world if you miss your target just have fun with shooting.<br/>Happy target hunting]]></description>
					  <author>no@spam.com (Thomas Parker)</author>
					  <pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 14:53:18 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Understanding the Mortgage Meltdown; What happened and Who&#039;s to Blame]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[People are losing their homes and many more will lose their jobs before the mortgage meltdown works its way through the system. <br/><br/>To paraphrase Alan Greenspan's remarks on March 17th, 2008, &#8220;The current financial crisis in the US is likely to be judged in retrospect as the most wrenching since the end of the Second World War. The crisis will leave many casualties.&#8221; <br/><br/>How many casualties? Experts are predicting that in the next few years, between 15 and 20 million homeowners could have homes worth less than what they owe. Walking away from a bad situation may actually make sense for people who mortgages that are 'upside down' considering the fact that refinancing is out of the question and home equity is nonexistent. <br/><br/>It seems quite easy to point fingers at greedy Wall Street titans for causing the sub-prime mortgage crises. They after all, put together the deals that allowed banks to underwrite mortgages and then offload these liabilities to investors. What many fail to realize is that there is no shortage of blame to go around from homeowners buying more home than they could afford to real estate agents looking for more commission dollars. Mortgage brokers and bankers, the banks themselves, ratings agencies such as Moody's and Standard & Poor's, Wall Street, the Fed and last but certainly not least, the Federal Government. <br/><br/>Let's start with the homeowners--the people who are now in the process or soon to enter the process, of losing their homes. Some of these people had never before owned a home and as such, may not have been prepared for the costs associated with homeownership. Basic financial literacy is sorely lacking in this country despite there being no shortage of budgeting and tracking programs readily available such as Quicken and Microsoft Money. The lack of financial literacy does not absolve these buyers of their responsibility. Every borrower receives a truth in lending disclosure statement. Here is a portion of what the act covers: <br/><br/>The purpose of TILA (Truth In Lending Act) is to promote the informed use of consumer credit by requiring disclosures about its terms and cost. TILA also gives consumers the right to cancel certain credit transactions that involve a lien on a consumer's principal dwelling, regulates certain credit card practices, and provides a means for fair and timely resolution of credit billing disputes. With the exception of certain high-cost mortgage loans, TILA does not regulate the charges that may be imposed for consumer credit. Rather, it requires a maximum interest rate to be stated in variable-rate contracts secured by the consumer's dwelling. It also imposes limitations on home equity plans that are subject to the requirements of Sec. 226.5b and mortgages that are subject to the requirements of Sec. 226.32. The regulation prohibits certain acts or practices in connection with credit secured by a consumer's principal dwelling. <br/><br/>Much of the subprime mortgage crisis can be traced directly back to variable-rate mortgages. As is clearly stated above, &#8220;TILA does not regulate the charge that may be imposed for consumer credit. Rather, it requires a maximum interest rate to be stated in variable-rate contracts secured by the consumers dwelling.&#8221; It also clearly states that TILA also gives consumers the right to cancel certain credit transactions that involve a lien on a consumer's principal dwelling. One has to wonder whether or not these homeowners: <br/><br/>1. Bothered to read the truth in lending act disclosure at all. <br/><br/>2. Understood what the truth in lending act disclosure meant. <br/><br/>3. Chose to ignore the information printed clearly the truth in lending act disclosure. <br/><br/>A number of months ago, just as the subprime mortgage crisis was beginning to unfold, The New York Daily News ran an article about a family in New York City, who had bought a home and were now faced with the prospect of foreclosure. The article was sympathetic to this family, highlighting the fact that they're living the American dream and that this dream was about to come to an end. What I found to be distressing was the fact that clearly visible in the photo that accompanied this sympathetic article was a very expensive flat screen television hanging on the wall. Perhaps I'm na&iuml;ve, but I can assure you that if I were faced with the prospect of losing my home and having my family put out on the street, there is absolutely no way that I would still have that expensive television hanging on my wall. It would have been one of the first things to be sold and some financial relief would be found by jettisoning what I'm sure was the expensive cable bill. <br/><br/>Clearly the public needs easy access to financial literacy courses. Too bad we don't see the need to make this a mandatory course of study in our educational system. <br/><br/>Mortgage bankers and brokers have in the last four or five years been raking in cash by the bucket load in the form of commissions paid when mortgages they've originated, close. Many of these people have not needed to do much in the way of prospecting. Instead, their phones have run off the hook as people have jumped on the homeownership and refinancing and take out extra cash bandwagon, despite their ability to pay for their home. No-document loans were readily available without the borrower having to produce documentation that backed up their income. Clearly this practice can and indeed has, lead to substandard loan underwriting processes. Were some of these mortgage bankers and brokers dishonest? Sure. Were all of them dishonest? I think not. To have a massive nationwide conspiracy, where thousands and thousands of people involved in the mortgage banking and mortgage brokering profession got together to create this situation is simply not feasible. Yes, some of the blame does belong with those in the mortgage industry, but they were simply a small cog in the huge machine that created this mess. <br/><br/>Let's discuss real estate agents. In 2007, we bought a home, and also sold a home. The agent we used to purchase our home was absolutely fantastic. In our opinion, she went above and beyond to make our deal happen. She answered every phone call, followed up on every concern and was the epitome of professionalism. We consider this individual to be a friend, and we have sent referrals her way that have resulted in her earning additional commissions. We will continue to recommend her to all who ask or mention that they'd like to buy or sell a home in our area. <br/><br/>The real estate agent, we used to sell our home, could not have been more different. We got our old home ready to sell prior to closing on our new home. We decided to list it as &#8220;For Sale by Owner.&#8221; In the event that we didn't sell this home on our own, it was our intention to list it with an agent as soon as we had closed on the purchase our new home. Literally, from the day we put the sign in front of our home and listed it on a &#8220;For Sale by Owner&#8221; website we were inundated with phone calls from real estate agents. We were told many lies and were constantly harassed; although we had already made it quite clear to every agent who called, and there were more to 60 who did; that we were willing to pay half the commission-the same as they would have received had they sold another agent's listing. We also told every agent that called that we had already lined up an agent to sell our home in the event that we chose to no longer sell it ourselves. Our deadline was the closing date of our new home purchase. We did have an interested buyer who shortly after our closing date decided to keep looking so we listed our home with a local agent so that we could concentrate on getting our new home ready for our moving date at the end of the school year. This agent showed our home a maximum of two times and got an offer which we accepted. We ended up getting $1,000 less than we had wanted in a declining Real Estate market. The agents who had called many times to harass us called our listing agent on a number of occasions and he lied telling them that the house was under contract when in fact it wasn't at that time-clearly a breach of our agent's fiduciary duty. Quite frankly an ethical agent would have continued to show our home until closing in the event that the deal fell through. <br/><br/>But wait, there's more. Our agent also acted as the buyer's mortgage broker. At the closing table, we learned that he had signed documents from the buyer stating that he (our agent) represented them and we had signed documents stating that he represented us. We also learned that the buyer had effectively put down approximately 2-3% of the purchase price when financed closing costs were factored into the equation. Their first mortgage had what we thought was a high fixed rate and their second mortgage came with a rate in excess of 8.5%. Because the closing happened in August, literally in the midst of the first wave of the meltdown, if they didn't close on the day they did (August 31st, 2007), Citibank wasn't going to extend their rate. When my wife & I have bought houses in the past, it had always been a very happy day. These people looked absolutely shell-shocked at the closing table. I'm not convinced that they knew just how much their monthly payment was going to be until closing day. We knew down to the penny well in advance having budgeted and planned everything on a spreadsheet. Were these people stupid or just inexperienced and mislead by a greedy combination of real estate agent & mortgage broker? I'm extremely confident that they are intelligent people but inexperienced and taken advantage of by an unscrupulous agent. <br/><br/>The banks are also culpable. Prior to bank deregulation, Savings and Loans provided mortgages to home buyers and kept these loans on their books. Non-performing loans had a negative effect on the S&L's profitability which of course caused tighter lending guidelines such as job stability and decent down payments in order for prospective home buyers to be approved for a mortgage. Way back then, a home buyer had to actually save up enough money for a down payment 10 or even 20% before a bank would ever consider underwriting a mortgage. The checks & balances kept banks solvent and borrowers responsible. Although this approach worked, some cried foul stating that the regulated system was racist and discriminatory-and there certainly was some truth to this. Skipping forward to the present, banks made a bundle on mortgages over the past five or six years. For the most part, they allowed their underwriting criteria to be stretched so far out of alignment that almost anyone could and indeed did, qualify for a mortgage despite their ability to pay. Some folks even applied for and received mortgages for more than the property was worth. Sometimes for as much as 25% more than their property was worth! <br/><br/>Under the prior system, 125% mortgages would not have been possible because of course these loans were held on the banks' books and could have led to losses that would have had to have been absorbed directly by the bank. <br/><br/>So what went wrong? Under the current system, these loans were sold to the big Wall Street investment firms who repackaged them as collateralized mortgage obligations (CMO's), Mortgage Backed Securities (MBS's) and other similar acronyms. These instruments were then sent to the ratings agencies for their blessing and more importantly a letter rating. Many of these structured finance deals receive AAA ratings-the highest ratings available meaning that in theory, these instruments were least likely to default. How does one create a 'triple A' or AAA rated financial instrument out of sub-prime mortgages? Herein lies the magic. These Asset Backed Securities (ABS) are made up of different tranches or slices, each carrying a different risk and reward level. The first dollar of principle and interest is applied to the securities with the highest rating, and the first dollar of loss is applied to the tranche with the lowest ratings. The lower slices are designed to provide a security blanket that in theory protects the higher-rated securities. The investment banks that package or 'structure' these securities in order to earn fat fees when they sell them to investors are the same entities that pay the ratings agencies to rate these instruments. Clearly the possibility for conflict of interest is present. If investors and not the investment banks that stand to rake in millions in fees were to pay for the rating, the potential for this conflict of interest would be negated. Furthermore, the investment banks have a vested interest in convincing the ratings agencies of the credit worthiness of these securities. <br/><br/>So we've already pointed fingers at homeowners, some greedy, many more I suspect, na&iuml;ve or uninformed, real estate agents-one out of more than 60 in my experience was a gem, mortgage brokers & bankers, banks, Wall Street and ratings agencies so who's left? The Federal Reserve and the Government of course. <br/><br/>The Fed as its known is responsible of the country's monetary policy and for supervision and regulation of banks. This is the definition of the Fed's roles in their own words: <br/><br/>Monetary Policy <br/><br/>The Fed is best known for its role in making and carrying out the country's monetary policy-that is, for influencing money and credit conditions in the economy in order to promote the goals of high employment, sustainable growth, and stable prices. <br/><br/>The long-term goal of the Fed's monetary policy is to ensure that money and credit grow sufficiently to encourage non-inflationary economic expansion. <br/><br/>The Fed cannot guarantee that our economy will grow at a healthy pace, or that everyone will have a job. The attainment of these goals depends on the decisions of millions of people around the country. Decisions regarding how much to spend and how much to save, how much to invest in acquiring skills and education, how much to spend on new plant and equipment, or how many hours a week to work may be some of them. <br/><br/>What the Fed can do, is create an environment that is conducive to healthy economic growth. It does so by pursuing a goal of price stability-that is, by trying to prevent inflation from becoming a problem. <br/><br/>Inflation is defined as a sustained increase in prices over a period of time. <br/><br/>A stable level of prices is most conducive to maximum sustained output and employment. Also, stable prices encourage saving and, indirectly, capital formation because it prevents the erosion of asset values by unanticipated inflation. <br/><br/>Inflation causes many distortions in the market. Inflation: <br/><br/>&middot; hurts people with fixed income-when prices rise consumers cannot buy as much as they could previously <br/><br/>&middot; discourages savings <br/><br/>&middot; reduces economic growth because the economy needs a certain level of savings to finance investments that boost economic growth <br/><br/>&middot; makes it harder for businesses to plan-it is difficult to decide how much to produce, because businesses can't predict the demand for their product at the higher prices they will have to charge in order to cover their costs <br/><br/>Bank Regulation & Supervision <br/><br/>The Fed is one of the several Government agencies that share responsibility for ensuring the safety and soundness of our banking system. The Fed has primary responsibility for supervising bank holding companies, financial holding companies, state-chartered banks that are members of the Federal Reserve System, and the Edge Act and agreement corporations, through which U.S. banking organizations operate abroad. <br/><br/>The Fed and other agencies share the responsibility of overseeing the operation of foreign banking organizations in the United States. To insure that the banking system remains competitive and operates in the public interest, the Fed considers applications by banks for mergers or to open new branches. <br/><br/>The passage of the Gramm-Leach-Bliley (GLB) Act in November 1999, was the culmination of a multi-decade effort to eliminate many of the restrictions on the activities of banking organizations. <br/><br/>Some of the main provisions of the GLB are: <br/><br/>&middot; Repeals the existing limitations on the ability of banks to affiliate with securities and insurance firms <br/><br/>&middot; Creates a new organizational form that allows banking organizations to carry new powers. This new entity called a "financial holding company," (FHC) and its non-banking subsidiaries are allowed to engage in financial activities such as insurance and securities underwriting <br/><br/>The Fed's enlarged role as an umbrella supervisor of FHCs is similar to its role in supervising bank holding companies. The Federal Reserve Banks will supervise and regulate the FHCs while each affiliate is still overseen by its traditional functional regulator. <br/><br/>The Fed has to delineate the financial relationship between a bank and other FHC affiliates. Its primary goal is to establish barriers protecting depository institutions from the problems of a failing affiliate. To do this efficiently the Fed has to ensure increased communication, cooperation, and coordination with the many supervisors of the more diversified FHCs. <br/><br/>The Fed has access to data on risks across the entire organization, as well as information on the firm's management of those risks. Regulators will be in a position to evaluate and presumably act on risks that threaten the safety and soundness of the insured banks. <br/><br/>It would appear that the Fed has failed to curb housing inflation which played a role in this entire debacle then made matters worse and in their efforts or lack there of, to properly supervise banking institutions. <br/><br/>Finally the government, a.k.a. Uncle Sam, the big Kahuna 10,000 pound elephant etc. Where do we begin? How about with: 'Where were they?' <br/><br/>It now appears that after millions of horses are out of the barn (some horses ran, others were foreclosed upon) the government wants to step in with a bailout to save the rest. While nobody wants to see people lose their homes, the question that must be raised is this: What about all those of us who were responsible? Those of us, who scrimped and saved up a decent down payment, bought less-house than we could afford and who live below our means? Many of us drive older cars and keep them longer. We don't run out and buy the latest and greatest at inflated prices, we watch, wait and budget. <br/><br/>When the World Trade Center was attacked, families who decided not to sue received government payouts and we certainly don't begrudge them as I'm sure that given the choice, they'd prefer to still have their loved-ones over the money. The problem, in typical government fashion is that those who were responsible and had insurance policies in place received less than those who were irresponsible and didn't plan ahead. I'm not talking about dishwashers at Windows on the World and blue collar workers; I'm talking about executives, traders and people who should have known better. <br/><br/>Now our government, the same government that sat by idly watching as this bubble got bigger and bigger despite many warnings, wants to step in and bailout people who are in danger of losing their homes. There has been no talk about educating people, let's not teach people to fish, rather, let's give them a fish and bail them out once again at the expense of those who are responsible. <br/><br/>Clearly, by keeping the majority of the population financially ignorant, there is a lot of money to be made by the poverty industry. <br/><br/><br/>]]></description>
					  <author>no@spam.com (Dinesh Babu)</author>
					  <pubDate>Fri, 27 Jun 2008 10:01:39 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[The Many Benefits Of Your Own Home Based Business]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[Full time or part time the benefits of a home based business are numerous. With the economy moving in a negative direction and the price of gas, food and other necessities on the rise, a work from home environment is looking better every day. Taking into account the stress people are put under in todays work place, more people are looking for a less taxing lifestyle. More people are looking to become work at home entrepreneurs than ever before and for a variety of reasons are searching for a home based business, MLM, cash gifting or some other network marketing opportunity. <br/>Their reasons are varied, from companies downsizing, to the aging "Baby Boomer" generation, to just having flexibility in lifestyle. We live in an ever changing society and whatever the reason the benefits of a home based business lifestyle can be very satisfying. <br/><br/>Let's try a few of these on and see how they fit: <br/><br/>More free time or family time: Who amongst us wouldn't enjoy more free time to indulge ourselves in whatever it is we like to do. Weather its golf, fishing, tinkering with a hobby, sitting by the pool or just reading a book we would all welcome more free time to do what we like. The extra money a home based business provides goes a long way in providing the extra income to take the family out for a nice dinner or the kids to the water park. <br/><br/>The big commute: How much time do we spend on the way to the office or on the way home? Our highways are getting more and more crowded everyday, the price of gas continues to go up with no end in sight and the cost of the average car/suv is climbing every year. In a work from home environment you can get your cup of coffee and be in the office within the next 30 seconds wearing your jammies (PJ's). <br/><br/>Scheduling: Wouldn't it be nice if all you had to do is decide what hours you wanted to work today. No more 9-5! If you have an internet home based business you can virtually work any hour of the day or night. Now you have the time to go to the store, take the kids to and from school or even get in that little extra thing you needed to get done. <br/><br/>Job well done: When was the last time the boss came up to you and told you that you had done an excellent job? Self achievement is a driving desire that most of us are trying to reach, weather we have ever contemplated that or not. Helen Hayes, the American actress said, "My mother drew a distinction between achievement and success. She said that achievement is the knowledge that you have studied and worked hard and done the best that is in you. Success is being praised by others. That is nice but not as important or satisfying. Always aim for achievement and forget about success". In a work from home atmosphere you can receive all the benefits of a job well done. <br/><br/>Ya Hoo! Casual Day: When gainfully employed in a home based business every day is casual day. Enough said! <br/><br/>Now these are but just a few of the benefits that you can realize when you are in a work from home environment. I'm sure as you take a few moments to think about it you will come up with many of your own. Every business has some things that may be considered negative, even a home based business, but in the end I'm sure you'll agree that the positives far outweigh the negatives. Now working from this list, I'm sure you will find a multitude of other reasons to develop your own home based opportunity. <!-- google_ad_section_end -->]]></description>
					  <author>no@spam.com (Dinesh Babu)</author>
					  <pubDate>Thu, 26 Jun 2008 23:17:45 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Free computer security software]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[<em>Free software and information from a market leader...</em>]]></description>
					  <author>no@spam.com (John Jenkins)</author>
					  <pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 03:00:45 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Advice on Angels]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[A short article about my experience with Angels!]]></description>
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					  <pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 10:11:58 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Free Christian Dating Service]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[Are you looking to meet new Christian friends online for free?... read on!]]></description>
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					  <pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 21:32:37 CEST</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Help and healing from depression]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[If you realize that you are experiencing depression talk to someone that you trust, and let them know. It is wise to have some emotional support during this time.Depression can affect you mentally, physically, and emotionally. Some of the symptoms are decreased appetite, weight loss, sleeping too much, increase in alcohol consumption. Sometimes people drink more, because they don&#039;t want to feel emotional pain, but alcohol actually depresses the central nervous system and can make the depression worse, so it is better not to drink alcohol while you are feeling depressed, (if you realize you have a problem with alcohol there is help for that too).Since one of the symptoms of depression can be sleeping too much, it is important to get some physical exercise, (walking, running, swimming etc..)Exercise can help you feel better, because while you are exercising your body releases endorphins, removes toxins, and brings fresh oxygen through the blood stream to help you feel more balanced energized and refreshed. It is also good to go outside and get fresh air and sunshine that can lift your spirits up.Adjusting your diet can help too. Make sure you are getting the right amount of nutrients. Adding supplements (vitamins, minerals) can be helpful, since a person is not usually eating enough of the right foods when they are depressed.Seeking the advice of a nutrition consultant can help. I have worked with people who have had depression and have experienced it as well in my life, and have been healed by God and using these tools.. Remember there is always hope.  Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life. God desires you healed, delivered and set free.Depression can be brought on by unresolved anger turned inward, and or grief (the loss of someone or something) Getting in touch with feelings can break the denial and the recovery process can begin. You were never meant to do this alone. It wisdom to seek the help of a minister or counselor at this time.Keeping a daily journal can be helpful to release some of your feelings and it frees your mind up to help you feel better.  I also believe strongly in the power of prayer and meditation. When you pray, God hears you, and will answer you. He does promise this in his word. Psalm 118:5 &quot;I sought the Lord and he answered me, he delivered me from all my fears.&quot;  Meditating means really listening to God for direction and guidance. When you read his word, it is so alive and filled with so much wisdom, the truth replaces the heaviness. &quot;You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free&quot; Galatians 5: It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of bondage.There is power in the spoken word of God. He wants you to be whole and complete in him.Attending a support group can be a blessing as well, you will find out that you are not alone, and many people have been where you are and have come out the other side and are willing to help.You are worth the very best in life God has for you, and are very precious and special, created in his image, and he has many wonderful things in store for you. I am believing and lining up my faith for your healing based on Matt 18:19 When two touch agree concerning anything on earth it shall be done by my father in Heaven blessings,Cindi]]></description>
					  <author>no@spam.com (Cindi Sweet)</author>
					  <pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 08:34:56 CET</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Bunnies, Eggs and EAster?]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[Bunnies, Eggs, and Easter? What do bunnies and eggs have to do with Easter? Every year, around this time, I&#8217;m surrounded by every sort of bunny and egg decoration imaginable; most, if not all, edible. I remember growing up in a non-Christian home searching for hidden eggs and treats, painting eggs - and generally making a mess, and also the pungent, sweet smell of an Easter Lily in the house. We might even go to a church so we could feel like we had done our duty to the "God-thing" for another year. The only other time we might go to a church would be Christmas; just to make sure God knew we were "Christians", that is, if He did exist. Since I have come to know the truth about Easter, it has brought a whole new outlook on these two "holidays." Incidentally, the word holiday is derived from the two words holy-day. Most people, who would consider themselves "Christians", would probably say the most important event in history would be Christmas, as it celebrates the birth of Jesus Christ, but I would disagree. Although it was imperative that God take on a human form and soul in order to pay for the sins of man, His purpose would have been incomplete had Jesus not been resurrected 3 days after His death. Had he not been resurrected, we Christians would "still be in our sins" and would be "of all men most miserable." Of all the cults and ism's and religions in the world, ONLY true Christianity serves a LIVING God. You can verify this throughout the ages by checking the tombs of the many founders of the various other religions in the world, and there you will find one common truth among their bones - THEY&#8217;RE DEAD. You may ask, "How do you know that your Jesus came back to life, and is alive today?" Good question! Besides the many non-Christian sources that confirm the historicity of the Bible such as Josephus, Roman Historians, and geological finds, etc., the very Word of God confirms that, not only was it in God&#8217;s plan of redemption "before the world began" (Titus 1:2) and Revelation 13:8, but also that it was confirmed by many eye witnesses. (1 Corinthians 15:6) You might think that all the witnesses were biased however, consider this. If I were to tell you that John F. Kennedy wasn&#8217;t shot, but rather, drowning was his cause of death, I&#8217;m sure you would disagree with me wholeheartedly. Why? Because there were many eyewitnesses to the account, as well as you probably saw it on T.V, confirming the way he died. So it was with Christ. If He had not been dead and came back to life, the many thousands of people living in the area at that time would have refuted the claims of the Christians, who were, at that time, themselves small in number compared to today. Let&#8217;s look at a few FACTS about the resurrection of Christ: He was seen for 40 days - Acts 1:3, by Peter and the Apostles - I Corinthians 15:5-6, by James - vs. 7, John - vs. 8, AND by more than 500 people AT ONE TIME - 1 Corinthians 15:6. What does all this mean? Only God has the power over life and death, which confirms that Christ was who He said He was, God incarnate. If we ARE children of God by faith in Christ - Galatians 3:26, that means: A) we acknowledge we are sinners in need of a Saviour - Luke 18:13, B) we believe that ONLY Jesus can save us from our sins- Acts 4:12, and C) if we call upon Him to save us, He Will - Romans 10:13. Because Christ was resurrected, not only does it prove His Father&#8217;s acceptance of His payment for our sin, and that Christ&#8217;s salvation work was "FINISHED" on the cross, but also that He "ever liveth to make intercession for us" to God -Hebrews 7:25 , AND, the same power that raised Him from the dead, will someday raise God&#8217;s children as well. HALLELUJAH, what a Saviour!!!!!!!! What do bunnies and eggs have to do with Easter? Absolutely nothing, but this "holy day" you can receive a "treat" much sweeter than anything you&#8217;ve ever known - forgiveness of ALL your sins, and the promise of eternal life in heaven by faith in Christ&#8217;s death, burial, and resurrection. Won&#8217;t you turn to Him today and learn and enjoy the true meaning of Easter? He is Risen Matthew 28:6 He is Risen, just as He said, The Son of God could not stay dead. His job complete, He went back home, And now He sits upon His throne; For His saints, to intercede, According to their sins and need. He was the first of resurrection, And received a body of perfection. One day we too, who are called His own, Will rise again, by His blood atoned. We&#8217;ll be perfected, just like He, And will praise Him through Eternity. ]]></description>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Unconditional love]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[ What is Unconditional Love...??
Wow it is LOVE without conditions or limits.. Imagine that...

Love is the greatest gift of all...

1 Corinthians 13:1-7  &quot;If I could speak in any language in heaven or on earth but didn&#039;t LOVE others, I would only be making meaningless noise like a loud gong or clanging symbol.  If I had the gift of prophesy, and if I knew all the mysteries of the future,and knew everything about everything, but didn&#039;t love others, what good would I be? And if I had the gift of faith so that I could speak to a mountain and make it move, WITHOUT LOVE I WOULD BE NO GOOD TO ANYBODY..

LOVE is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  LOVE does not delight in evil but rejoices with truth.  It always protects,always trusts, always hopes,always perseveres...

Gods LOVE is unconditional.. He always loves you.. No matter what you say or what you do he will ALWAYS love you.. 

LOVE IS A CHOICE... It is not just a  feeling or an emotion, it means sacrifice, laying down your life for someone else, serving..

Every human being longs to be loved, to be complete and whole, lacking nothing. 
When you are attracted to someone, sometimes, you just know that person has some special qualities that you desire, long for, that will help you in the process of becoming whole and complete.

Relationships need a good foundation and that begins with trust, to know that your heart is safe with someone else. That is how intimacy begins. You start sharing with some one and then you realise you are drawn to who they are, the qualities they have, the manner of spirit that is within them, their goals and dreams and hearts desires are the same, or similar to yours.. It can be exciting. In order for intimacy to grow two people must be ok  where they are, and comfortable sharing, they need to feel safe for it to flow.....

I am sorry but it is an unsafe world that we live in.. We are imperfect human beings, and thats why we need Jesus. Sometimes we are even hurt by those we have loved, and trusted,even in the church...

How Jesus crys out  &quot;Come to me all you who are heavy ladden, and you will find rest for your souls&quot;..

He is a faithful friend, that will never leave you or forsake you. He gently calls us into his loving arms.. Love is patient, he waits patiently for us.. It is kind, &quot;It is his kindness that leads us into repentance&quot;.. It is not Jealous, I find safety and security in Jesus arms of love for me...

It is not self seeking, I have more than enough, and I lay down my life to love and serve you..

It is not easily angered, I forgive you.. &quot;Father forgive them for they know not what they do..

It keeps no records of wrongs, the slate is wiped clean.. &quot;It does not delight in evil but rejoices in truth&quot;. All darkness will come to the light, to be exposed and truth will remain.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres..

HIS LOVE NEVER FAILS,  it is UNCONDITIONAL and that means, I LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT, no matter what you say or do,  I love you.. Love is a choice, and I choose to love.. When your life is hidden in Christ, and you choose to  LET HIM LOVE YOU, then you will experience the greatest love of all,  the warmth comfort, and safety of God&#039;s never ending unconditional love ...

Many blessings,
Cindi

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					  <author>no@spam.com (Cindi Sweet)</author>
					  <pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2008 00:01:58 CET</pubDate>
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